When there is no reason it should.
I was at school tonight, and we started to cut hair tonight, well all I heard in my head was the ex saying "You'd better not mess up. You are worthless and you can't do anything right." I hate that! It always comes back and haunts me when I least expect it.
Right now my mindset isn't the greatest. I did very well, BTW, but I just hate when I hear his voice in my head. He does not belong there, I know I am not stupid and I can do anything that I set my mind to, but it irritates me so much that he is still in there taunting me and still hurting me. I am so scared this will never stop.